9th grade demands higher executive function. Use visual schedules for "Micro-Tasks" like morning hygiene and backpack prep.
Create a dedicated "cool down" area with weighted blankets or noise-canceling headphones to help with sensory regulation.
Role-play high school scenarios (e.g., asking for help, joining a club) to build social confidence in a safe environment.
When meltdowns happen, try: "I see that you are frustrated, and it's okay to feel that way." Connection before correction.